There are 2 problems that weaken the foundation of Marriage Counseling...
Problem #1: Marriage counseling professionals believe in a single idea: "Do good and you will feel good." They believe that by doing good things for each other, you will see positive results and be able to strengthen and build on those results.
With over two-hundred thousand marriage counselors in America, why hasn't the divorce rate plummeted?
Why are one-million, two-hundred thousand marriages still self-destructing every year when couples have good advice offered to them around every corner?
Here's why...
When couples go through marriage counseling, something happens to them that, in effect, "reverses" everything they've learned...and they don't even know it. Lurking inside their brain, is a "set of instructions" on how to be married that was given to them during their childhood.
A little girl is shown by her mother how to treat a man by the way her mother treated her father. A little boy is shown by his father, how to treat a woman by the way his father treated his mother.
Marriage counselors and therapists address this fact under what they call "family of origin issues" but their methods rarely register with couples who cannot dismantle those original "programs". These "hidden marriage instructions" are the 'master computer' couples will always fall back on without knowing how or why...that is, unless they do something about it.
The Marriage Lifeline reveals how to find those original "marriage instructions", dismantle and replace them with a "program" that is much more positive and beneficial for their marriage. This is NOT an overnight process but it is a specific and very doable skill. It takes time.
Problem #2: Marriage counselors believe that emotional experiences should move you so much, that you will gain a new way of thinking and acting.
Marriage counselors and seminars both subscribe to this belief because they believe those lessons and insights will never be forgotten. If this was true, couples who attend marriage seminars would never fall back into their old ways of treating each other once the seminar is over. Emotional experiences are wonderful during the moment, but for most couples, the effects are often short lived.
So what is NEVER forgotten? The original set of marriage instructions given to us during our childhood. Those last a lifetime. They never need to be upgraded, supported or tuned up.
If you were given very good programs, your life is most likely quite easy and successful. If you were given troubling programs about how to be married, they will trouble you for the rest of your life...UNLESS you find them, dismantle them and replace them with new and more positive programs. The Marriage Lifeline does exactly that. Are YOU ready to be sponsored?
